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It's been a long long time..

It's been a long long time ever since i last blog..
What is my feeling right now?
Just woke up from bed knowing that there's no school today..
Its not a good feeling ya know..
alone in the house staring at this monitor dunno what to do.. friends are all busy with their jobs.. very busy indeed..
another thing is that, being a student is poor because prices increase and allowance still the same.. sigh..
how about taking a part time job?? i've tried that once.. Flunged my papers.. and the sad thing is, NIE have not contacted me for a very long time..
How about teaching tuition? i dun mind but the thing is, where to find? nowadays, all the tuition teachers are female.. moreover, if i have students, i think they're gonna fail!! haha.. i can't teach.. i know myself better than others.. sigh..

How do you see yourself in the future??
Honestly speaking, i have this feeling.. i will succeed.. and become a wealthy man.. haha.. living comfortably, doing the job that i like. i always believe this will happen..

What have you achieved/done/did recently??
hmm.. recently, i've learned a few card tricks after attending this lesson.. feel proud of it.. i just wanted to see those amazed look in my friend's face.. making them happy.. when they are happy, i am happy..
and i found myself a new hobby and that is collecting poker cards.. at least right now there's sth that i'm interested in..

How is your relationship Condition now?
Well, i can say that.. quarrel and arguments are tiring.. really.. but then think of it in another way.. thats is the only way to express your unhappiness (if the other party cant control their emotion).
after all these tiring process, payoff is quite satisfying.. some think that a couple will love each other even more.. but for me, i think that after all negative or should i say ineffective ways to handle a relationship, a couple will realise a more practical way to solve the problem (i'm a very practical person). If anyone asked me if i still love my partner? my answer is Yes I Still Do!!

What have you realised after going into a relationship?
i realised that a relationship is like "Law of Diminishing Returns" (in economics term).
When the relation have gone to a situation where the love you gave has maxed out, the return will eventually become reached constant/diminished.. This is when you'll find derivatives(your friends) useful.. they will not only help you when there's problem, they might also be able to boost your profit(enhance your relationship). So i concluded that these derivatives are very powerful tools..

I'm getting nowhere to my goal

at my age.. some pple already got married earning big money..
the pathetic me still studying in school..
its not that i dun want to take action..
its just that i dun have the chance to take any action right now..

Business ideas, i have plenty..
it just that i dun have funds..
serious, any business idea can work..
u can create a business out of anything..
from the sky to the sea.. the ideas are all there!!
its just that how are you going to innovate it..
even selling char kuay tiao is also a good idea..
u see old chang kee.. they are so successful now..
sigh..

My plans will start when i graduate from this school..
and suddenly my "umbrella" business plan flashed across my mind.. haha..

Life

Found a part time job in NIE..
assisting all the professors in their report..
well, lots of data entry to do..
and right now i still have a whole chunk of it..
they're easy to do but its just that there's a lot of it..
Luckily, Dr Quek allows me to bring my work back home to do..
Right now its 3/06/2009 9:30pm.. and i'm still at my desk working..
at home of course!!!
i'm just taking a few minutes of break to blog.
trying to type out everything to make myself feel better.
poor me..
What to do ??
have to earn extra cash for my big plan..

And my HDB application has been approved..
just waiting to sign the agreement letter.
Guess what next? Marriage of course.

Had been thinking and thinking..
right now i'm no longer a young chap.
Kids called me uncle instead of kor kor. sigh.
what to do again?? when a man is reaching his 30.
have to start planning for the future. Marriage, kids and career.

how envy i am to some of my classmates who are still have the youth to enjoy.. i think i'm heading towards the end of that stage.

Time really flies. Those days where we went for lan-gaming after school or pool session, or did some other crazy things, seems like yesterday. what's in my mind now is $$, completing my studies, what to do after i graduate, and marriage. always thinking about these kind of stuffs.. i really need coffee sessions.. and soon i'll become a full time uncle.. Yishun or AMK perhaps.. anyone?